cowboythegirl:

dogparkmayor:

cowboythegirl:

dogparkmayor:

cowboythegirl:

dogparkmayor:

flyingtit:

cowboythegirl:

People who say “I fucking hate cishet people”.

First of all: your parents.
Second of all: good luck getting hired anywhere with a hateful attitude towards an entire group of people.

first of all: not everyone has cishet parents and not every cishet…

for someone vehemently against generalizing, you sure seem comfortable doing it when it doesnt apply to you

when was i ever vehemently against generalization

should i make my point including every single option for parental genders and sexuality regardless of the actual percentage of people they cover simply to prevent people from ignoring the actual point i was making by criticizing every possible thing to criticize in every fucking post?

i don’t know why i even reply to any of you, yet here i am doing it again. there is always a handful of people who are going to be angry no matter what you say, even if you try to clarify your original point 100000000 times and have genuinely good intentions of the message that hate is hate regardless of who you are or what group you are in or what you have been through.

Your entire belief of cisphobia/heterophobia is centered around your hatred of generalization, because thats all cisphobia/heterophobia is, generalization.

Instead of making your point “including every single option for parental genders and sexuality” how about you don’t make your point at all because its completely invalid.

I’ve said this to you many times, and phrased it many different ways; you’re oversimplifying it, hate is hate doesn’t mean all hate is equal, and it certainly doesn’t mean cisphobia/heterophobia is even close to being a valid thing.

My entire belief of cisphobia/heterophobia is centered around my hatred of the generalization of SOME PEOPLE who see the entire group in a HATEFUL way. It is not generalization I am upset with. It is negative generalization. It’s one thing for people to say “hetero people are weird because gay sex makes sense to me” and it’s another thing to say “hetero people should all die.”

My point is not completely invalid because my point is in regards to the people on this website who say things like “all cishet are scum and should kill themselves” and shit like that. If you don’t believe me, check out “cisphobia” or “heterophobia” under Tumblr’s tags. I literally unfollow blogs that say shit like this because it makes me sick to see someone telling others such hateful things, and I would certainly unfollow any blog that promotes hate against others in any other area as well.

You are correct to say “hate is hate doesn’t mean all hate is equal”, that is true. But as I have said before, let’s stop comparing scars and stop hate no matter how small. Whether it is a post where someone says “I saw a faggot the other day gross” or whether it is the blogs out there that actively tell cishet people they are “worthless pieces of shit”. I don’t want to compare scars or oppression because the point is

we are all human beings and we should not be treating each other like this.

Like I’ve told you before, a very small portion of tumblr genuinely hates all cis people purely for being cis, the rest you see is fair and justified generalization, even if it is negative generalization. Whether you want to admit it or not, there is a large portion of cis people that don’t deserve kindness, cis people who are transphobic, homophobic, racist, sexist, etc.

Your point is invalid because, like others have said, not all parents are cishets, and/or good parents. Of course it’s not ok to tell people to kill themselves, I am in no way condoning that, but that’s not cisphobia, that’s one person being an asshole, and if you want to contribute to stopping “cisphobia” than debate with the few individual people who spread vicious hate to cis people just for being cis.

You’re completely missing the point again. Do NOT compare cishet’s hurt feelings to the constant oppression minorities face every day. It doesn’t matter if they both hurt someone’s feelings, they are so far apart from being at all similar. There is no need to have one big group hug for cis people because of the hurt feelings they face. Pay attention to real issues for once.

That’s true it’s a small portion, but just like cyber bullying, it’s not okay regardless of who it effects. Yes, there are apparently a lot of cis people who hate trans and gay people, I guess I’m lucky to not be associated with anyone like that. In fact, I have lived in California for three years and Wisconsin really the rest of the time and have never come across a single moment or person where LGBT community was being bashed, and I am grateful for that because that is not okay. The people who don’t deserve kindness, are on a case to case basis. You cannot say “ALL CIS PEOPLE ARE BAD” because it’s not true, it’s a negative generalization that is NOT TRUE. And even if you try to validate it by saying “well of course unless you’re a good CISHET” and I cannot say that the majority of CISHET people are bad. I mean, I’m going to need some statistics before I can agree with that point.

My point was not about all parents. I was making a point really for the people who actually go around saying “ALL CISHETS DESERVE TO DIE”, most people come from cishet parents. I never once said that gay couples can’t adopt, trans people can’t get pregnant/make babies, or etc. My aim was really at the people who shit on a group of people with a negative generalization and in order to strengthen that point I went with the majority who most likely are dealing with CISHET parents. Yes, I understand that not all parents are good, some don’t get or accept LGBT children and that is horrible and I am sorry. But I’m not going to argue on who’s parent is what or how they feel about them. I pick a majority truth and used it to support my main message that was “not all cishets are bad so can you guys stop telling us all to kill ourselves?” basically.

THIS IS NOT ABOUT OPPRESSION. Never was. Go to a different post if you want to argue about oppression.This is about a portion of Tumblr that is bullying people. If this was about oppression I would be arguing on your side, but I am not. This is about BULLYING in general. I happened to focus in on something that I have been seeing a lot of (hopefully less because I have unfollowed blogs that post shit like that), and I am making a statement. THIS. IS. NOT. ABOUT. OPPRESSION. THIS IS ABOUT BULLYING AND HATRED IN ANY FORM NO MATTER HOW SMALL. I will stand up for ANYONE who is being wrongfully bullied. 

Also..

Being raped does not excuse you to say that all men are evil and should be killed.
Being called racist slurs as a POC does not excuse you to say all white people are pieces of shit and should kill themselves.

No matter what you have endured, saying that an entire group is as evil as the ones who you have experienced does not make it factual. We are all individuals and the gross negative generalizations about ANY group is a negative stereotype that some people think allows them to get away with bullying and hateful words.

People who use these stereotypes as a crutch to negatively generalize an entire group are disgusting and I can’t even acknowledge them as human beings.

The thing is, nobody is saying “ALL CISHETS ARE BAD”. It’s usually something like “ugh cishets”, and I shouldn’t have to explain to you that the people who make those kinds of posts aren’t talking about literally every last cishet on this planet.

This IS about oppression. Issues like transphobia, homophobia, etc. are characterized by systematic oppression, something that’s completely absent in “cisphobia”. That is why it’s invalid. If you really want to talk about it and fight against it, refer to it as “a few individuals on tumblr who actually tell cishets to kill themselves just for being cishets”, because that would be realistic. And even so, it’s much more worth it to stand up for issues like transphobia, homophobia, sexism, racism, etc.

When will you learn.

PS.

I’ll be continuing this conversation on a sideblog, even though it would be a lot more convenient if you had your askbox open.

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xsj

cowboythegirl:

“”one thing that’s also weird to me.. is how pissed off people get at like people that aren’t some weird ass gender.. like there are people that have never met me, that hate me because I’m a straight male that’s never questioned the fact that I do in fact have male genitalia””

— — J.S.

"some weird ass gender"

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xsj

cowboythegirl:

dogparkmayor:

cowboythegirl:

dogparkmayor:

flyingtit:

cowboythegirl:

People who say “I fucking hate cishet people”.

First of all: your parents.
Second of all: good luck getting hired anywhere with a hateful attitude towards an entire group of people.

first of all: not everyone has cishet parents and not every cishet…

for someone vehemently against generalizing, you sure seem comfortable doing it when it doesnt apply to you

when was i ever vehemently against generalization

should i make my point including every single option for parental genders and sexuality regardless of the actual percentage of people they cover simply to prevent people from ignoring the actual point i was making by criticizing every possible thing to criticize in every fucking post?

i don’t know why i even reply to any of you, yet here i am doing it again. there is always a handful of people who are going to be angry no matter what you say, even if you try to clarify your original point 100000000 times and have genuinely good intentions of the message that hate is hate regardless of who you are or what group you are in or what you have been through.

Your entire belief of cisphobia/heterophobia is centered around your hatred of generalization, because thats all cisphobia/heterophobia is, generalization.

Instead of making your point “including every single option for parental genders and sexuality” how about you don’t make your point at all because its completely invalid.

I’ve said this to you many times, and phrased it many different ways; you’re oversimplifying it, hate is hate doesn’t mean all hate is equal, and it certainly doesn’t mean cisphobia/heterophobia is even close to being a valid thing.

My entire belief of cisphobia/heterophobia is centered around my hatred of the generalization of SOME PEOPLE who see the entire group in a HATEFUL way. It is not generalization I am upset with. It is negative generalization. It’s one thing for people to say “hetero people are weird because gay sex makes sense to me” and it’s another thing to say “hetero people should all die.”

My point is not completely invalid because my point is in regards to the people on this website who say things like “all cishet are scum and should kill themselves” and shit like that. If you don’t believe me, check out “cisphobia” or “heterophobia” under Tumblr’s tags. I literally unfollow blogs that say shit like this because it makes me sick to see someone telling others such hateful things, and I would certainly unfollow any blog that promotes hate against others in any other area as well.

You are correct to say “hate is hate doesn’t mean all hate is equal”, that is true. But as I have said before, let’s stop comparing scars and stop hate no matter how small. Whether it is a post where someone says “I saw a faggot the other day gross” or whether it is the blogs out there that actively tell cishet people they are “worthless pieces of shit”. I don’t want to compare scars or oppression because the point is

we are all human beings and we should not be treating each other like this.

Like I’ve told you before, a very small portion of tumblr genuinely hates all cis people purely for being cis, the rest you see is fair and justified generalization, even if it is negative generalization. Whether you want to admit it or not, there is a large portion of cis people that don’t deserve kindness, cis people who are transphobic, homophobic, racist, sexist, etc.

Your point is invalid because, like others have said, not all parents are cishets, and/or good parents. Of course it’s not ok to tell people to kill themselves, I am in no way condoning that, but that’s not cisphobia, that’s one person being an asshole, and if you want to contribute to stopping “cisphobia” than debate with the few individual people who spread vicious hate to cis people just for being cis.

You’re completely missing the point again. Do NOT compare cishet’s hurt feelings to the constant oppression minorities face every day. It doesn’t matter if they both hurt someone’s feelings, they are so far apart from being at all similar. There is no need to have one big group hug for cis people because of the hurt feelings they face. Pay attention to real issues for once.

reblogged 12 hours ago @ 24 Apr 2014 with 189 notes via/source
xsj

cowboythegirl:

dogparkmayor:

flyingtit:

cowboythegirl:

People who say “I fucking hate cishet people”.

First of all: your parents.
Second of all: good luck getting hired anywhere with a hateful attitude towards an entire group of people.

first of all: not everyone has cishet parents and not every cishet…

for someone vehemently against generalizing, you sure seem comfortable doing it when it doesnt apply to you

when was i ever vehemently against generalization

should i make my point including every single option for parental genders and sexuality regardless of the actual percentage of people they cover simply to prevent people from ignoring the actual point i was making by criticizing every possible thing to criticize in every fucking post?

i don’t know why i even reply to any of you, yet here i am doing it again. there is always a handful of people who are going to be angry no matter what you say, even if you try to clarify your original point 100000000 times and have genuinely good intentions of the message that hate is hate regardless of who you are or what group you are in or what you have been through.

Your entire belief of cisphobia/heterophobia is centered around your hatred of generalization, because thats all cisphobia/heterophobia is, generalization.

Instead of making your point “including every single option for parental genders and sexuality” how about you don’t make your point at all because its completely invalid.

I’ve said this to you many times, and phrased it many different ways; you’re oversimplifying it, hate is hate doesn’t mean all hate is equal, and it certainly doesn’t mean cisphobia/heterophobia is even close to being a valid thing.

reblogged 12 hours ago @ 24 Apr 2014 with 189 notes via/source
xsj

flyingtit:

cowboythegirl:

People who say “I fucking hate cishet people”.

First of all: your parents.
Second of all: good luck getting hired anywhere with a hateful attitude towards an entire group of people.

first of all: not everyone has cishet parents and not every cishet…

for someone vehemently against generalizing, you sure seem comfortable doing it when it doesnt apply to you

reblogged 13 hours ago @ 24 Apr 2014 with 189 notes via/source
xsj xsorry to bring this onto my blog
fuckyeahlavernecox:

ONLY A FEW HOURS LEFT TO VOTE
Boost it, electrocute it, rocketship itShe is currently behind Justin Bieber and Katy Perry. Can we please not let that happen, thanks

fuckyeahlavernecox:

ONLY A FEW HOURS LEFT TO VOTE

Boost it, electrocute it, rocketship it

She is currently behind Justin Bieber and Katy Perry.
Can we please not let that happen, thanks

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Xtremely irrational minority person: kill and eat all straights
author self insert: oh my such vulgar language i almost felt a bead of sweat roll down my delicate forehead mmm yes oh my
good rational minority person: Hey, the Heterosexual Community has feelings that matter as much as yours or mine. By spouting such awful things you are literally oppressing people-their rights and privileges are being drained from them as you type on this microblogging site. To quote Dr. Martin Ghandi X, "why c an't we jsut bbe nice uwu"
Xtremely irrational minority person: *pees*
author self insert: thank u good rational minority person. it is a shame not everyone can be as good as u *feed treat*
good rational minority person: woof
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xsj
nevernoahh:

wow look at all those butterflies
High Res

nevernoahh:

wow look at all those butterflies

High Res

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xhomestuck xkankri vantas xqueue xnice

cisphobia isnt real you say???

then whats THIS

posted 2 days ago @ 21 Apr 2014 with 5 notes
xdogparking
today-in-homestuck:

It’s been exactly five years since…
[S] John: Play haunting piano refrain. [04/21/09]

today-in-homestuck:

It’s been exactly five years since…

[S] John: Play haunting piano refrain. [04/21/09]

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xhomestuck xdamn